The Actual Essence of Living

Ajayi Joy (Oyiza)
3 min readAug 1, 2023

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One of the in-depth questions that often arise particularly in times of grief, is the true essence of living. Pain can cast a shadow on life’s meaning, leading us to wonder about the essence of our existence.

In the face of uncertainties, we find ourselves wrestling with various struggles and challenges.

From navigating different phases of growth, to being dedicated in pursuing transition. The pursuit of a better life seems to never end.

Amidst these struggles, the disturbing question persists: Is life really worth all the fuss?

Imagine the young professional who sacrifices precious sleep, and wakes at 3 am daily to battle Lagosg morning traffic, in order to be at work early. Or the ambitious 25-year-old juggling work and post-graduate studies to carve a path toward a fulfilling career. And then there’s the middle-aged individual who diligently labors for the well-being of their family, hoping to shape the life they dream of. Or, the 20-year-old somewhere who constantly hones their skills, striving for certifications through discipline.

Despite their dedication, no one can predict what lies ahead. Life’s unpredictable scope encompasses twists, turns, unexpected curves and unforeseen challenges.

As aspirations remain uncertain, the question of life’s essence becomes more profound.

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What truly gives life meaning?

What is the actual essence of living?

Perhaps, we need to re-assess our perception of achievements and personal accomplishments. Instead of measuring success solely through monetary or material gains, we should focus on seeking purpose.

I think from a young age, the pursuit of purpose should guide our actions, ensuring that our struggles align with a deeper meaning. The struggles we face can get entirely frustrating when the idea of a feat is flawed.

It’s high time you disregard societal bars and expectations that often impose themselves on individuals. Fulfillment shouldn’t be tethered to society’s flawed perspectives. Rather, look within and search your soul for passion and purpose. Life gains clarity when it aligns with a meaningful objective – much like how Jesus impacted countless lives in just 33 years.

Life’s uncertainties can be overwhelming, but as a Christian, I find solace in the belief of life after death. Is life challenging? Embracing faith can provide comfort and a sense of direction in the face of these challenges. Above all, knowing Jesus can offer profound peace and a fulfilling life.

To truly live life to the fullest, treat each day as if it were your last.

Spread love, treat people with kindness, and live purposefully. Purpose is that driving force that adds meaning to every aspect of life. When we discover our passions, tap into our potentials, and align with our purpose, life takes on a new, fulfilling dimension.

Here is what I think: the essence of living, lies in embracing purpose and meaning, even amidst life’s struggles and uncertainties. Disregard the societal norms that often dictate success and fulfillment. Instead, embark on a journey to uncover your passions and potentials, which leads to a life lived with purpose and impact.

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Ajayi Joy (Oyiza)
Ajayi Joy (Oyiza)

Written by Ajayi Joy (Oyiza)

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